Cyber's
Rules of Roleplay
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TRIGGERS
If you have any triggers, I expect you to be forthcoming about them so I can ensure you are not exposed to those topics while writing with me. I will do everything in my power to avoid bringing them up, and if a situation arises where the topic is unavoidable, I will provide a warning beforehand. However, please understand that a warning does not necessarily include any meta information about the scene.
If I unknowingly bring up a trigger, please pause the scene and reach out to me directly so we can address it and prevent further discomfort.
I cannot take responsibility for triggering someone without prior knowledge, though I am always willing to apologize for any unintended upset.
I personally have no triggers that would limit my writing. If you still wish to ask out of caution, I understand, but it is not necessary.
OUT OF CHARACTER CONFLICT
I will not argue or defend in-character actions. If you believe I’ve broken a rule, please bring it to the staff so the situation can be properly reviewed and handled.
If I’ve hurt or offended you in any way, I encourage you to reach out to me—or to the staff of wherever we’re writing—so the issue can be resolved. I can’t address a problem if I don’t know it exists, and I’m always open to having a respectful conversation.
We’re all adults here, and I expect the same level of honesty and maturity that I give in return. Anything you say about another person should be something you’re comfortable saying directly to them. If I learn that you’ve been speaking poorly about me for reasons other than seeking advice on how to approach a concern, I’ll step away from the connection permanently. I have no space or energy for unnecessary drama. Let’s handle our business with respect and remember that this is a hobby meant to be enjoyed.
STORY PLANNING
If you’d like to create a shared backstory with one of my characters, we’ll need to discuss the details—how they met, any major events between them, and the current state of their relationship in the present setting. I don’t agree to vague connections that imply more than simple acquaintance.
Meaningful relationships in my writing are reserved for those who have the time and motivation to invest in them. If you’re unsure that our schedules or reply times will reasonably align, I kindly ask that you refrain from suggesting a deeper connection.
Please also understand that once a connection or scene begins, natural story progression may shift the direction or outcome you originally envisioned. Characters may clash or take unexpected turns, and that’s part of authentic storytelling. Any plans made out of character are always open to change. If that happens, please refer to the communication guidelines above on how to proceed respectfully.
All Things In-Character
TERMINOLOGY
METAGAMING: The use of knowledge in-character that has been obtained out of character.
I under no circumstance tolerate metagaming. If it is brought to my attention that any of the information given to me in character has been metagamed, I will no longer be willing to write with you.
BLEEDING: This occurs when you allow your out of character feelings influence that way you write and the way your character responds or reacts to situations.
Feeling emotions regarding your writing is normal and is to be expected when you spend such a great deal of time on any hobby. However, as adults, we should all be able to recognize our emotions and when they are negatively impacting us. It is no one's responsibility to ensure you handle in character actions or consequences well. If you feel you are not in the correct emotional state to write, please step away.If I believe you to be bleeding, I will express the concern to you and end or pause the scene for my own comfort until it can be worked out personally or by staff.
SELF INSERT: A character that is based on you in real life, aimed to allow yourself to live vicariously through the eyes of your fictional self.
I am of the belief that someone playing a self-insert incapable of not bleeding as you are quite literally playing yourself. For this reason, I am unwilling to write with anyone playing one.
POWERGAMING: An act of enforcing your own narrative on a scene without allowing input from the others who are participating in it.
In roleplay, there is no main character unless the title has been given to you directly by staff or your roleplay partner. That means that it is a collective story. I will not write with anyone who believes their character is invulnerable, invincible, or untrickable. You are not perfect and neither is your character.
CONSEQUENCES: A result or effect of an action or condition.
All things in life have consequences, no matter how little or big they are: action and reaction. If your character threatens another, expect that there will be retaliation in some degree.Apologies do not mean all is well, even if your character is told they are forgiven.There is a chance your character can be targeted, disliked, shunned or potentially killed.
REALISM: The quality or fact of representing a person, thing, or situation accurately or in a way that is true to life.
I write realism to the best of my ability regarding the setting I am writing in. If it is medieval, I will not write that I have a cellphone. If it is the zombie apocalypse, I will not treat the world like the apocalypse never happened. Whatever I am writing, I am writing for the setting as it interests me and will stay as true to it as possible.
ROLEPLAY
ROMANCE: By agreeing to write romance with me, you’re also agreeing to everything that comes with it. Romantic relationships in writing aren’t always sunshine and roses; there may be tension, arguments, dishonesty, or even betrayal if it fits the characters and story. I enjoy writing realistic, layered dynamics, and I ask that you approach them with the same understanding and maturity.
SECRETS: Every character and every writer has their secrets. I reserve the right to keep any in-character secrets I’ve learned out of character to myself. Friendship does not entitle anyone to that information, and I expect that boundary to be respected. If I choose to drop hints or reveal details in character, that is entirely my decision. Likewise, any secrets shared with me OOC will remain confidential unless you give explicit permission to discuss them.
CONFLICT: Conflict between characters is not the same as conflict between writers. If our characters clash, it is simply part of the story, not a reflection of our relationship. Disliking someone OOC for their character’s actions, as long as no rules are broken, is unnecessary and unfair. If you ever feel uncomfortable with where an IC conflict is heading, please reach out to me or to staff so we can resolve it respectfully. Just keep in mind that if we choose to end a conflict prematurely, we will not be revisiting it later.
Rules of Erotic Roleplay
When it comes to ERP, I have no qualms with writing out the scene however it must have an actual purpose rather than being something that's being written just to be written. Some examples would be their first time together, after a fight, or to make-up. I will not just write it because it's Tuesday and they have nothing better to do.I will not write a scene where there is a possibility that another person may stumble upon it or witness it. Any and all ERP must be in a PRIVATE DM with me. Otherwise, all scenes will be faded to black.If it is revealed to me that that sort of writing has been shown outside of that DM for any reason, that will be the last time we ever write erotic scene together.
!!IMPORTANT!!
Under absolutely no circumstance is ERP a reflection of our OOC relationship. If you make inappropriate comments to me regarding the scene or in any capacity, I will end the scene and communication with you immediately. You will be report for harassment.
ROLEPLAY AGREEMENT
I agree that I will alert Cyber of any triggers that I am concerned may be brought up in character. If I do not, she is not responsible for my feelings if I am exposed to them.
I agree that if I have an out of character problem with Cyber that I will either speak to her directly about the problem or contact staff to help resolve the issue.
I agree that I understand her conditions on story planning.
I agree to understanding her positions on in character actions.
I agree to the rules of erotic roleplay, if that should ever come up.
I agree that I understand that at no time does in character actions represent the out of character relationship you have with Cyber.
If you have a problem with anything listed above, please reach out to me to discuss them. I am willing to speak to all those I plan to write with about how to make the roleplay most comfortable for us both. These are generalized based off my own experiences and what I feel is neccesary to protect myself while continuing to participate in a hobby I adore so much.If you agree to the information that has been listed, please respond as much in DMs.I can not wait to see what is in store for us.